My father in law has been diagnoised with cancer and has been given 12 months to live.  My Hubby also lost his sister to cancer in '96, she was 25.....This is extremely hard for everyone, as it should be.  Please send good vibes to my father in law and the family.  If ANYONE has any suggestions or spells that would help delay or stop the spread PLEASE let me know (always hoping)

My hubby has decided to cremate him.  He wants to spread half the ashes on his sisters grave (that was dads eyeball)  and either keep the other half or spread it in the ocean as he loves the beach.

Knowing how I am, he wanted to know if seperating the ashes will aggravate the spirit?  If there are any negatives to spreading or keeping the ashes.

MY question is IF we keep it, if there a chance the spirit would stay with it....half or whole.  I know it's a possibility.  Being I see dead people, and hear people I don't know IF I want to hear it forever or until he walks over.....but if it is something he wants, i will deal with it.

 

Thank you for whoever answers or knows answer....website would be good as well.

 

blessed be

I have to admit that I have pushed and bought all the things I need to get my alter the way I want. Even though I am physically ready, it appears that I have been so busy and my mental state has been in question that I have not taken the time to set it up. I have been chanting and meditating as much as I can, when I can.
I don't know it seems my WANT to is there, but my mental mind is pushing me away. I hope not because it's something that I know deep down I am and I need to help me grow. It's the only thing that I have that is MINE and that I can use to make ME better as well as help others if need be.
Tonight, after I get my hair cut, I'm putting it together.
Any forceful encouragement is helpful people...HAHAHAHA

I have a friend of mine who is buddist, she happens to work at a Pizza place and delivers pizzas. Well, being in OK, she sometimes gets stuck in that small little hole in the wall where drivers have to stay until there is a delivery. Anyhow, it appears that everyone there felt the need to be bible pushers. She said everyday, it's being 'preached' by one or more of the fellow drivers.

Well, she evidently she told them that she studied buddism, and they proceeded to tell her that she worshiped the devil and that it is evil and it's a sin and she is going to hell, yadda yadda *add all bad judgemental stuff that most closed minded people say *

I was talking to her about it and something hit me. I am a person that when I get into a conversation with someone, regardless the topic, and I'm not familiar with that particular topic, I reserach it. I do not believe there is ANYTHING wrong with knowledge and learning more about anything that intrigues you. That being said, I have NO problem when someone has studied and learned about Buddism, and in their opinion, do not care for it. I see nothing wrong with that, to each his own. But when you have closed minded people who do not want to take the time to learn and autmatically think that ANYTHING other then their own beliefs, it's SATAN, or extremely evil.

I live in a city where the closest store that remotely even looks like an 'occult' store is a good 45 minutes to an hour away. I am in NC, the almost CENTER of the bible belt. A place that has strip joints, but the women have to cover their nipples with paint, and have to wear lacey booty short panties, no thongs. And I'M trying to live my Wiccan life. I think I need to move....lol

I just wanted to share that experiance. I know it's everywhere, but sometimes it's just too much.

Blessed Be~!

I had all the intentions of waiting until I get everything I want for my alter before I put it together. I have a glass table that I am using for the time being. But it hit me last night that I really need to get it going if nothing more then to meditate or do a few spells at it. I have neglected and procrastinated enough. My thoughts have been random with work, personal and spiritual. I have done my divination a time of two, but intend on and want to do more. I really enjoy doing it and being able to contact those around me.

I wanted to take a moment and say my thoughts, I shall return.

I always have left my TV on b/c my puppy has a tendency to bark at everything that she hears outside. This may have contributed to the dream(s) that i had last night, but i'm not quite sure.

From what I remember, and i know i should really write it down when i wake up to remember, I was trying to get to a concert. There were obstcules that kept me from getting there. I was in my home town, then i was elsewhere like New orleans. It was a open park, where the concert was. It was right across the street from the house I was in, but had to go back home to change. I get home and there are balloons and stuff hanging around in one of the rooms with my ex's name on them. He had wrote a poem on the walls, even though he was with me. It's like he was with me standing there, and had done this and it transformed to who I am with now standing with me. All I could do was smile at the jesture even though i had no clue what it was for or about.

Then we ended up at the dead endroad by my parents house going toward it trying to get somewhere and ended up turning around in the yard to go another way. It was like i was on a go cart being so low to the ground. Went to drive over a little creek, still low to the ground, and hitting it not being able to go to the other side due to a hill on the other side.

I'm jupming back and forth as i'm trying to remember the whole things. This may be future things coming, who knows. All I know is it's crazy and i plan on remembering more so I shall return...maybe