My father in law has been diagnoised with cancer and has been given 12 months to live.  My Hubby also lost his sister to cancer in '96, she was 25.....This is extremely hard for everyone, as it should be.  Please send good vibes to my father in law and the family.  If ANYONE has any suggestions or spells that would help delay or stop the spread PLEASE let me know (always hoping)

My hubby has decided to cremate him.  He wants to spread half the ashes on his sisters grave (that was dads eyeball)  and either keep the other half or spread it in the ocean as he loves the beach.

Knowing how I am, he wanted to know if seperating the ashes will aggravate the spirit?  If there are any negatives to spreading or keeping the ashes.

MY question is IF we keep it, if there a chance the spirit would stay with it....half or whole.  I know it's a possibility.  Being I see dead people, and hear people I don't know IF I want to hear it forever or until he walks over.....but if it is something he wants, i will deal with it.

Thank you for whoever answers or knows answer....website would be good as well.

blessed be